It's no secret that when faced with the decision of using donor eggs during IVF, one of the biggest emotional hurdles to overcome is the realization that the child will not share genetic information with the birth mother. (The term 'birth mother' is used to refer to any woman who has given birth to a child, including mothers who are recipients of donor eggs or donor embryos.) However, epigenetics shows us that there is a scientific connection between birth mother and baby that goes beyond DNA.
Thanks to the amazing advancements in the field of epigenetics, we now know that the birth mother, even when using donor eggs, plays a significant role in the way the baby’s genes develop and contributes tremendously to the development of the baby.
Although certain characteristics of the baby may be genetically inherent from the egg donor, male partner, or sperm donor, the baby is still growing from the birth mother’s body! After the implantation of the embryo and throughout the entire pregnancy, every cell in the baby’s body is influenced by the birth mother’s body. They work together. All the nutrients that the mother is intaking are helping to build the little human inside of them; the baby starts absorbing nutrients secreted from the endometrium (the tissue lining the uterus) from the earliest stages of pregnancy onwards.
The baby lives in the birth mother’s embryonic fluid for nine months, shares her blood flow, and even knows her voice and the rhythm of her heartbeat. But beyond all these beautiful connections, epigenetics shows us that the prenatal environment provided by the birth mother may even influence the way the baby's genes are expressed.
As shared by Victoria Nino, a DEIVF mother,
"Through Biology, I gave my daughter everything she needed. She had a healthy DNA blueprint from her egg donor and her father, but my body gave her life and nurtured her into the human she is. Genetics gave her, her physical appearance (a beautiful one I might add) but epigenetics is what made her who she really is, at her core, her essence, her grit, her compassion. I continue to discover new biological connections I have to her as she grows, which started the moment she was born - my mom kept talking about how much she smelled like me when I was a baby, and at the time I figured it was just a normal baby smell, but later learned it’s an actual biological connection we share."
Read more in this blog post: When Using Donor Eggs, Will My Baby Look Like Me?
Not only does epigenetics begin in the womb, but scientists also believe that the most fundamental impact on gene function occurs in utero. A birth mother’s womb serves as the first, and most impactful, environment for the baby. This means that the mother’s lifestyle choices from even before conception, and especially throughout gestation, have a tremendous impact on the overall health of the individual for the rest of their lives. Studies suggest that gene activity may be altered by factors present in the womb even before implantation. This means that the birth mother’s health even before conception can contribute to the overall health of the baby, which is why it is so important to begin prioritizing your health sooner rather than later. Two of the main factors to focus on are controlling stress levels and intaking proper nutrition. If you have any concerns, consult your physician to receive specific health recommendations.
Several studies suggest that the environmental factors that a baby is exposed to in utero have a direct impact on whether that individual develops major medical conditions in their adult life. It's very well-supported that environmental conditions in the womb can have long-lasting effects on development and future health, even into adulthood. For instance, we know that low birthweight is linked to an increased risk of type 2 diabetes and heart disease later in life.(2)
Although a donor egg recipient mother does not contribute maternal genes to the baby, she still has a profound influence on how the baby’s genes will perform throughout the individual’s entire life. The birth mother is responsible for more than just the gestation and birth of the baby. She is responsible for creating a healthy environment for the embryo to develop in; an environment that will literally contribute to the way in which the baby’s genes develop and the future health of the child.
We hope this blog was helpful in understanding epigenetics and the significant role it plays in the donor egg IVF process. We aim to provide any potential DEIVF patient with a multitude of resources to guide them through their unique family-building journey. Please feel free to click around our website for additional resources!
Donor Nexus is a boutique egg and embryo donation agency located in Newport Beach, California, working with egg donors and intended parents worldwide. Since our establishment in 2012, we have helped grow over 750 families using donor eggs or donor embryos. We offer free access to our online donor database, high success rates, flexible fresh and frozen donor egg programs, and exceptional patient care.
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References:
1: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17413852
2: https://www.progress.org.uk/can-donor-egg-recipients-pass-on-dna-to-their-children/