Surrogacy involves a rather complex legal process; it is important that the gestational carrier meets the legal qualifications. First, the surrogate should be over 21 years of age and have the legal right to work and live in the country where the surrogacy is taking place. The surrogate should be willing to undergo legal counseling to understand the surrogacy process and the legal implications involved.
Additionally, we are currently only accepting applications from women living in surrogacy-friendly states. As surrogacy is regulated on a state level rather than federal, some states are more supportive of the surrogacy process than others. Please refer to the following list of surrogacy-friendly states and districts:
Another important qualification for a gestational carrier is emotional stability. Surrogacy can be emotionally challenging for the surrogate, as she is carrying a child for someone else. It is important that she has a strong support system in place and is emotionally prepared for the process. It is understandable for a surrogate to form a special bond with the baby while they are in her womb. However, it is important that she is able to separate her own feelings from the pregnancy and not become attached to the baby.
Although we proudly offer generous compensation packages to our surrogates, it is important that the finances are not the sole motivator. Being a surrogate takes heart, commitment, and responsibility. We consider factors such as a stable home environment and financial stability in our surrogate vetting process.
Lastly, while not a strict qualification, experience can be a valuable asset for a surrogate. Experienced surrogates may have a better understanding of the process and be better equipped to handle any challenges that may arise. They may also be able to provide valuable support to first-time intended parents. Additionally, having previous first-hand experience of pregnancy and childbirth may be beneficial to the surrogacy journey.
It requires a very special person to even consider becoming a surrogate, so we thank you for your interest in the Donor Nexus Surrogate Program! By carefully vetting potential surrogates, we are able to offer higher chances of success to intended parents and provide a positive, fulfilling experience for all involved. If you meet all the surrogate qualifications listed above, we encourage you to apply to our surrogate program. As a boutique agency, we provide our surrogates with personalized and compassionate care throughout the entire process, from application to postpartum. If you have any additional questions, please get in touch with our team.