So, you have leftover embryos after IVF and you’re now feeling the emotional burden of having to decide what to do. You’re not alone. According to a 2005 study, 71% of couples had not decided what they were going to do with their unused frozen embryos after storing them for an average of 4.2 years.
If you have decided that you have no use for the embryos, have you considered the option of donating embryos to other couples or individuals?
Infertile couples and individuals need embryos. Research shows that of the estimated 600,000 cryopreserved embryos in the U.S., less than 15% are donated to be used by others. However, in recent years, donating embryos to be used by others has become a more accessible option. Donor Nexus, among other embryo donation agencies, has pioneered an advanced program that provides a solution for both donors and recipients. As the embryo donor, you are provided with a dignifying and meaningful option to bring closure to your IVF journey while simultaneously helping another family overcome infertility. There are many hopeful intended parents searching for the perfect donor embryo, eager to give the embryo a chance at life.
For these couples or individuals who are unable to conceive naturally, embryo donation provides them with a hopeful option to pursue their dreams of building or adding to their family. Essentially, their future family depends on the kindness of strangers. When you choose to donate your unused embryos, you are giving the potential gift of life to a couple or individual that has been fighting for that “maybe baby” for a long time.
As shared by a previous patient who donated leftover embryos to be used by another couple:
“The couple will be successful. The child will be successful. Their house will be filled with love. My wife and I are so pleased that our blessing was not wasted and it could bless not just us but a family like ours. The baby will be part of them and they will be part of their baby.”
The embryos were created with the goal of creating a life, and donating your unused embryos carries on that dream.
Fortunately, donating embryos to other patients has gained popularity in recent years as the need for donations to science has been decreasing; only a handful of programs are still accepting donated embryos for medical research. This makes sense as donating to science has been a popular option in the past, meaning labs now have ample embryos accessible for research and training purposes.
Understandably, when you are focused on creating embryos with the hopes of building or adding to your family, it’s difficult to imagine how you will feel afterwards when you realize that you have leftover embryos.
Here at Donor Nexus, we aim to inform both donors and recipients on the embryo donation process to do our part in making sure you are able to confidently choose if donation is right for you. Listed below are some of the most common questions we hear regarding donating embryos to others.
No, you cannot sell your frozen embryos. It is illegal in the U.S. to pay for an embryo. However, donors are typically reimbursed for specific costs relating to the donation. Donor Nexus covers all shipping costs to transfer the embryos to our clinic, cryopreservation/storage fees, and any additional legal fees that may be required.
While Australia and the U.K. have a storage limit of 5-10 years, the United States has no limit on embryo storage. This is a good solution for couples who plan on personally using their embryos at a later time. However, many couples will decide that they do not want any more children, yet continue to pay the annual storage fee as a way to postpone the decision of what to do with the unused embryos.
In an open donation, you can choose to exchange contact information with the donor recipients. In a closed donation, you choose not to have contact with the recipients. Generally, at Donor Nexus, we facilitate closed, anonymous donations. However, we prioritize your preferences and will be happy to assist in facilitating an open donation if that’s what you choose.
Unlike embryo adoption, there are no complicated or perilous legal issues surrounding the use of donor embryos. The recipients, known as the birth parents, are the legal parents of the child.
If you have any additional questions regarding donating unused embryos, our team would be happy to discuss your options with you.
We understand that this is a very important and difficult decision, and we understand that it’s common for donors to have hopes for the family that may be welcoming their embryo to life in the future. With this in mind, we respect and accommodate any preferences you have when it comes to placing your leftover embryos into the right family.
When you donate embryos to Donor Nexus, we work with you to ensure that all your desires for the future of your embryos are understood. When we list the embryos in our database, we will add in your preferences to be seen by the intended parents searching the database.
Some common requests that we gladly accommodate are:
Essentially, we do all that we can to make sure that you are comfortable and confident in your decision. Are you interested in donating unused embryos? To learn more or submit your information, please visit this page.
Still unsure if embryo donation is for you? Click here to read a testimonial from a donor embryo recipient intended parent.